1) Your Babysitter/Nanny: You don't need to see her in a bikini and  feel bad about yourself. Also, it would only make you paranoid: Is she is  Facebooking when with your kids?

2) Personal Trainer: Nope. He doesn't need to know you ate that whole  cheesecake and derailed his work. Better you just hang in the gym,  thanks!

3) Your Priest or Rabbi: They don't need to see your  sins. Or photos of you in bathing suits. Or anything your friends tag  you in. Just no.

4) Your Husband's Ex-Girlfriend: This should be  obvious, but in case it's not, this is a big no. Why do you ever need to go down  that comparison spiral? Is she cuter than me? Is she smarter? Is her new hubby  hotter? Just stop!

5) Your Boss: It's just awkward. Talking about  work on Facebook is generally a no-no anyway, but this is a bad idea.

6) Your Insane Ex: This may seem like closure and like a great plan that  will make you guys be friends. But it won't. He's crazy and he will STILL be  crazy after he unfriends you a few weeks from now.

7) Your Baby  Daddy/Mama: Too. Much. Drama. Those thinly veiled, passive insults and barbs  thrown back and forth in status updates.

8) Your High School  Bully: Look, you didn't like him in high school when he was calling you  names or pushing you in a locker. So you SURE as hell aren't going to like him  now. Even if his life is a mess and it gives you a thrill to be able to watch  and mock him, this is just bad news. Hit "ignore" on his request and put high  school behind you.

(The  Stir)